Praise the Lord. I honestly don’t know who’s happier, the parents or the kids. 🙂 I am VERY VERY VERY happy. I feel like our whole family just graduated from first class. Addy and Ezra’s transition in to Ukrainian public school has been very much a whole family endeavor, and we are all happy and relieved that summer break has arrived.
The last day of school in Ukraine is traditionally called “Last Bell”. All school lessons in Ukraine, every day, begin and end with the bell. So, the first day of school is called “First Bell”, and the last day every year is the “Last Bell”. It’s a very important day in Ukraine! There is ceremony and tradition and celebrating. I like it very much.
Yesterday was Last Bell at Addy and Ezra’s school and it was such a cool experience! I love how much we are learning about Ukrainian culture by having our kids in school. It’s a whole new world.
Normally the program is outside, but it rained yesterday, so everyone gathered in the gym. The first four classes (primary school) had their program together. Everyone lined the edges of the gym, each class in a line with their teacher, and then parents behind them. Our kids’ school is fairly small, so we could all fit.
It started with a flag ceremony and the singing of the National Anthem, then the Director said a few words. An older man spoke also, but I have no idea who he was or what he was saying. Ha! After he spoke a bunch of kids ran up and gave him flowers, so he must have been someone special. 🙂
Then the Director handed out special awards of achievement to a few children from each class. After a few minutes of that, our kids’ teacher turned around to me to ask me if I had a camera. I said yes, I did, and she motioned to me like I should be ready. Then she said “Addy, Ezra- microphone”. Oh! Huh?? I promptly pulled my camera back out and waited for whatever was next. The Assistant Director got up and started speaking. I heard her say the word for “Americans” and my ears perked up. She called Addy and Ez up and gave them a special award for diligence and achievement for their work in learning Ukrainian language! It was so special. Then she leaned down and was talking to Addy. I realized that she wanted Addy and Ezra to recite their poems in Ukrainian for the assembly! Poor Addy didn’t understand what they wanted her to do, so her teacher went up and helped her understand. They both said their poems for everyone and did awesome! We were so proud of them!!! Their teacher was positively beaming, she was so proud. It was very sweet. It feels like their whole school is cheering on their little Americans. Haha! We need all the cheering we can get!
After the awards were done, an older class got up and did a cool dance to celebrate summer break, there was more flag ceremony and the National Anthem was played again. I’m totally not kidding when I say I’m pretty sure my kids have heard the Ukrainian National Anthem more times than they’ve ever heard the Star Spangled Banner- and we haven’t even lived here 7 months! When Seth hears the beginning of the song he says “Слава Україні!” (Glory to Ukraine!) Ha! After the anthem, the program was finished! The kids got to go to the cafeteria for a snack and then all the parents took a ginormous amount of pictures. Their teacher also gave each child a diploma for finishing first class.
Then we were free!!!! We practically floated home we were all so happy. We celebrated by taking the kids to the movie theater. It was our first time in a movie theater here and we had fun. We saw Rio 2, in Ukrainian of course. 🙂
Now we have three months to decide what to do about school next year for Addy, Ezra, and Havalah. For Addy and Ezra we have a couple options, one being continuing on in their current school. Kids here stay with the same children all the way till graduation, and they keep their same teacher for the first four years, so that would be a nice, familiar place to return to in the fall. We’ll see. We need to pray and figure out what God’s best school plan is for this next year. I don’t even want to think about it right now. The homeschooler in me is just SO HAPPY to have all my children at home. Sigh…bliss.
What do with Hava next year is another mystery. Children don’t start “official” school here until they are 6 or 7- usually closer to 7. Before that, most children attend дитячий садок “sadik”. It’s like daycare/preschool/kindergarten. They do learn the kindergarten fundamentals there, and if your child doesn’t attend sadik they really won’t be ready for first class. So, in order for first class to be easier on Havalah when she turns 6 or 7, it really does make sense to put her in a sadik, at least part time. Parents can choose how often they send their kids, so it’s not mandatory that she go…we just feel like it would benefit Havalah to get more time each week for language acquisition, since she is pretty much always just home with us, hearing English. BUT- I really, really don’t want her all alone in a class where she doesn’t understand anyone. She’s so tiny! AND, I really want her to learn to read and write in English first.
School has definitely been easier on Addy, because she already has such a great grasp on English reading and writing. Ezra, on the other hand, doesn’t read or write in English super well, and now after 4 months of Ukrainian school and no English school he is on about the same level with both languages when it comes to reading and writing. (Of course he has almost zero comprehension of Ukrainian reading) I know this is normal and he will catch up, it’s just nice with Addy to know I don’t need to worry about building her English language skills- we can just work on Ukrainian. Ez needs help with both. Hence me wanting Hava to learn English skills WELL first.
Oh my, all this bilingual stuff makes my brain hurt. I wish there was a manual for all this. 🙂 Ah well, one day at a time. The important thing is that they are learning and they are growing. We have our whole lives to learn. I don’t want to be in a rush on their behalf. At this point we are leaning toward putting Havalah in a sadik two mornings a week, and doing home school kindergarten the other three days.
So far we’ve been really happy with our experience in Ukrainian public school. Our kids’ teacher is so kind to them and she truly cares about their success. Addy and Ezra feel comfortable at school and the kids are nice to them. Never in a million years would I have imagined I would be a mom and my kids would be in a national school in a foreign country. I mean, as long as I dreamed of being a missionary you’d think I would have thought this one through, but nope. I guess I probably always thought they’d be homeschooled, or go to an international, English speaking school or something. What an interesting road we travel. For all it’s ups and downs and uncertainties I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
THREE CHEERS FOR SUMMER BREAK!
So wonderful to hear how positive their experience of U public school is. i pray that the Lord gives you wisdom as to what to do for the next school year.
My 2 cents is that going to public school always helps with integrating and understanding the culture more. With regards to have a foundation in English 1st, while that is true, i also know children who are effectively tri-lingual because they have at least 30% of each language within a week. So it is possible for H to learn both languages at the same time and be good in both, you just have to balance the time she spends in each language.
Whatever you decide on, you have your kids’ best interests at heart & that means it can only go well. Enjoy the summer!
We still have 5 weeks of school over here…
I’m so jealous! School in England doesn’t get out until July 23. Their summer break is one month long, and I am so burnt out! But super-glad to hear about how well everything went for your kids. Yay!
I’m sure God will give you wisdom and opportunities for next year. Sometimes libraries and other places have preparation classes for school. I had thought of doing that with some of our children, because it’s just an hour or two, several times a week, and it’s just focused on prep. Maybe there will be something like that for you. Bi/tri-lingual education choices are hard!
Addy totally rocks those Ukrainian bows!!! 🙂 Tell that girl we miss her, and hug your brave and fabulous kids for us. I want to be a little bit like them when I grow up–they are rockstars! What a wonderful end to the year, we love following along with all of you 🙂
Note new e-mail address – I dropped Comcast & have local wifi. The children are so beautiful – I am so happy for all of you and that school went well. God is good! I liked comment “never in my dreams”. Our heavenly Father likes to surprise us with joy. Give all the children a hug for me.
Love and prayers ~ Grandma Pat